Married men in the house, which do you see keeps your marriage, love for your wife or Respect for her?
On one hand, one lady who is all nice and sweet, puts all her emotions into the ship, but her attitude, intellect needs some work.
You are ready to help build her, educate her but you fear you might not respect that much. Her dream is a loving husband.
On the other hand, another lady, is not the loving/romantic type, a little cold, but she is responsible and smart.
You respect her a lot, but it looks, you will both have to grow the love. She’ll have the tendency, say any disrespect, I’m packing my bags instead of working things out. Her primary focus is to be respected in her marriage.
Lastly, what do you ladies want?
I hear some women say, love, some say respect, some say both.
It varies based on those who believe strongly in love vs those who don’t want disrespect from their husbands.
… But one thing is sure, most women deep down want one over the other.